{"id":31268,"date":"2015-04-28T20:16:23","date_gmt":"2015-04-28T18:16:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/stevinho.justnetwork.eu\/?p=31268"},"modified":"2015-04-28T21:23:39","modified_gmt":"2015-04-28T19:23:39","slug":"leuchtturm-vom-sich-gehen-lassen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stevinho.justnetwork.eu\/2015\/04\/28\/leuchtturm-vom-sich-gehen-lassen\/","title":{"rendered":"Leuchtturm: Vom sich gehen lassen"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><center><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stevinho.justnetwork.eu\/files\/2011\/09\/leuchtturmbanner.jpg?resize=575%2C173\" alt=\"leuchtturmbanner\" width=\"575\" height=\"173\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-9402\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stevinho.justnetwork.eu\/files\/2011\/09\/leuchtturmbanner.jpg?w=575&amp;ssl=1 575w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stevinho.justnetwork.eu\/files\/2011\/09\/leuchtturmbanner.jpg?resize=300%2C90&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stevinho.justnetwork.eu\/files\/2011\/09\/leuchtturmbanner.jpg?resize=120%2C36&amp;ssl=1 120w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 575px) 100vw, 575px\" \/><\/center><\/p>\n<p>Meine Mutter hat sich von meinem Vater scheiden lassen, als ich sechs Jahre alt war. 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